A sports parent's guide

The carRide home.

What to say before, during and after the game.

Help them compete with courage — and come home knowing your love was never riding on the scoreboard.

Get the car ride home

Video training, digital playbook and phone cheat sheet. $27 USD.

Megan and Nick Weisheipl together at the ballpark

Megan & Nick WeisheiplAthletes. Coaches. Parents.

  1. Before the game
  2. In the stands
  3. On the ride home
Nick listening at eye level during a conversation with an athlete

The game is over.

They get in the car.

You know they're disappointed. Or frustrated. Or maybe they just had the best game of their life.

And as a parent, you want to help. So you ask questions. You offer advice. You point out something they could work on. You tell them how proud you are.

But sometimes, even with the very best intentions, our words create pressure we never meant to create.

Because what we say isn't always what our kids hear.

They already know what happened.

What they need from you isa safe place to land.

That's why we created The Car Ride Home — a short, practical training and playbook that helps sports parents understand what their athlete may actually need from them before, during and after competition.

Not so you can become the perfect sports parent. Not so you never say the wrong thing again. So you can be more intentional about the words, reactions and behaviors that help your athlete build:

  • Courage
  • Resilience
  • Self-trust
  • And a healthy relationship with sports — and with you.
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The complete resource. $27 USD.

We know this from every side.

Between the two of us, we've lived sports as athletes, as coaches, and now as parents in the stands.

Megan Weisheipl presenting at a workshop

Mindset coach, speaker, author

Megan Weisheipl

Megan has been an athlete, a youth coach and a sports parent. She teaches people how to understand the thoughts and patterns driving their behavior so they can show up with more courage, intention, self-trust and confidence — in sports, in leadership, at work and in life.

Nick Weisheipl coaching beside the field

Coach, professional manager and author

Nick Weisheipl

Nick has spent more than two decades in baseball — as an international professional athlete and as a coach at the NAIA, D1, D2, D3 and professional levels — developing athletes, building team culture and working with players through the highs and lows of competition.

Now we're raising our own athletes.

We've watched thousands of games. We've coached thousands of athletes. We've listened to players talk about the pressure they feel, and watched parents desperately try to help.

And we've made mistakes with our own kids, too — because loving your athlete doesn't automatically mean they'll experience everything you say as love.

Your intention and their experience can be two different things.

You can't control exactly how your child interprets everything you say. But you can be intentional about the environment you build around their sport. That's what we want to help you do.

Nick speaking with a group of boys and Megan speaking with a group of girls in a school gym

Inside the car ride home, you'll learn:

Small shifts you can use at the very next game — not a personality transplant.

  • What your athlete may actually need immediately following competition
  • Why timing matters just as much as what you say
  • What to say before a game without unintentionally creating expectations
  • Why coaching from the sidelines can make it harder for your athlete to perform
  • What to do when they look at you after making a mistake
  • How to handle the ride home after a tough loss
  • How to respond when they're frustrated, angry or emotional
  • What to do when they don't want to talk
  • How to celebrate great performances without creating pressure to repeat them
  • How to build a personalized Car Ride Home plan with your athlete

And one of our favorite tools

  1. Step one

    Pause

    Before the first word leaves your mouth.

  2. Step two

    Notice

    What's actually in front of you — and what's going on in you.

  3. Step three

    Choose

    The response that fits what your athlete needs right now.

You can't control how they played, how the coach coached,
the calls that were made, or how your athlete feels about any of it.

But you can control who you are in the car ride home.

One practical resource.

$27USD

Watch in one sitting

Video training

A short, practical training from both of us that you can watch tonight and start using at your athlete's very next game.

Personal stories, coaching experience, mindset principles, and what we've learned raising our own athletes.

Keep it for the season

Digital playbook

Your practical guide for before, during and after competition.

Scripts, conversation starters, mindset shifts and tools you can come back to all season long.

Save it to your phone

Phone cheat sheet

Pull it up before the game, in the stands, or in the two minutes before your athlete opens the car door.

Sometimes you just need to know what to say next.

Get instant access — $27 Video training, digital playbook and phone cheat sheet. Yours immediately.

This isn't about raising soft athletes.

Quite the opposite.

A player signing baseballs for young fans along the netting after a night game

We want our kids to learn:

  • How to lose.
  • How to make mistakes.
  • How to take coaching.
  • How to handle disappointment.
  • How to compete.
  • How to take responsibility.
  • How to get back up.

That's resilience. But resilience doesn't come from never feeling disappointed — it develops when athletes learn they can feel disappointment, process it, and move forward anyway.

Your job isn't to eliminate every uncomfortable emotion. It's to build an environment where they can learn to navigate them.

Your athlete isn't the only one who gets a game plan.

Inside the playbook, we'll also help you ask yourself a few honest questions.

  1. Do they need coaching right now, or connection?
  2. Am I trying to help them, or relieve my own anxiety?
  3. Am I disappointed because they're disappointed — or because I'm disappointed?
  4. Whose goal is this: theirs, or mine?

And maybe most important of all:

What does my athlete actually need from me?

Because every kid is different. The goal isn't to parent every athlete the same way.

The goal is to understand yours.

Megan, Nick and their family together on a sports field

Years from now…

They probably won't remember every score, every statistic or every mistake.

But they may remember looking into the stands after they messed up — and seeing your face.

They may remember the walk to the parking lot after a terrible game. What it felt like sitting beside you in the car. Whether home still felt safe when they failed.

Cheer loudly.
Love watching them compete.
Let them struggle.
Let them learn.

And when the game is over…

Be their safe place to land.

Your next car ride home starts here.

Everything you need to be more intentional before, during and after the game — for less than the cost of a tournament lunch.

With love,
Megan & Nick Weisheipl

The complete resource

$27USD

  • Video training
  • Digital playbook
  • Phone cheat sheet
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Instant access to all three.

Coach, club or school?

Bring this to every family in your program.

Teams, clubs, schools and leagues can give every parent on the roster their own access — or have Megan and Nick teach it live to your parents and coaches.

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